Tuesday, October 17, 2006

Two to tango or two to Waltz?

Does it take two people to maintain a harmonious relationship?
Is it so hard to maintain a balance when one is putting in more effort than the other. Is it fair or not is a different question altogether but what pertains is ....Is this strained relationship actually a relationship or is it a forceful communion of two people who do not have the same goals anymore or perhaps developed differences that they had not envisaged ever before.

So like things fall into place when both take equal measures to maintain equilibrium, similarly both are equally responsible for whatever ruins the equilibrium.

If one has been aggressive then probably the other was so non responsive that they wouldn't go on with the same waltzing life that they initially were so comfortable with.

Whatever the reason may be if one withdraws then may be the other should wait and watch. May be the other should not step forward or backward. For if that one move is made then judgements will be made of whether the forward was pursuit or the backward was withdrawal !!!

Thus hang on....patience is a virtue and so hard to come by. May be the best way to go about things is to wait and watch. Time will tell everything.. .Yes it will ................hopefully !

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Good one, Goblin!!

and totally agree with you. "Wait and watch" is sometimes the best thing to do. Let some time pass by, everything falls exactly where you want them to be.

Anonymous said...

Good one.

Also, I noticed you have added Puppy Manohar to your list of blogs read.

Just for that, you have been invited to our housewarming party, whenever we decide to have it.

28112 said...

@ mrinmayee...thank u... good to see you back on my comments section....
@ bigfatdeal...
puppy manohar is an awesome blog and well as for the invitation..what can i say i am honored...wuffffffff...